Silent Night
Moroni was in danger.
I counted 27 fireworks displays at one time.
The Senior Couples watching fireworks from the roof of the hostel near the temple We are in the background. The couple in front are Elder and Sister Goates.
Fireworks by the Montevideo Temple
This picture was taken from the roof of the hostel. There is a parking lot, a two-story brick chapel, and then the temple. The other buildings on the right are the senior missionaries apartments (not ours), the mission homes, and the church offices, including the distribution center for Uruguay. It takes up an entire city block with a tall fence around it, like the one around the Idaho Falls Temple.
Betty's Birthday
When we got there, everyone was milling around the office as if nothing was happening. The assistant manager, Veronica, called me into her office, and had me do something. Everyone else gathered into the classroom. We were the last ones to come in. When I opened the door, they all said, Feliz Cumpleanos! (I don't have a tilde on this computer for the n.) What a fun surprise!
They had a chocolate cake with caramel (dulce de leche) filling and decorations. It looked really delicious. Then they put a "candle" on it and lit it. This is what happened!
The people in the background are: Florencia, Veronica, Daniel Collato (Our Manager/ Bishop.) My expression pretty much says it all. It was amazing! I thought we might get in trouble for lighting fireworks in the building, but there are no codes here like in the States. YIPPEE!!! FIREWORKS ON THE BIRTHDAY CAKE!
We all took a picture together in front of the birthday sign. There are better pictures but this is the only one I could get so far. Hopefully, I can get another one this week. It was an amazing birthday. Thanks for your thoughts, prayers and Facebook wishes. They all came true!!
Relief Society Christmas in Uruguay
The tables were set with the food when we got there. We had a broccoli torta, which is a thick quiche. We also had empanadas which are round pastries with meat filling folded in half and sealed. Yum! There was a roll of some sort, kind of like an egg roll with meat and vegetables inside.
After we had eaten most of the delicious food on our plates, Julia Bengochea, a new convert, came around with pizza with a yummy, thick crust, and a large rolled sandwich with tuna salad in it. The bread was slightly sweet, so the sweet, salty thing kept me wanting more. Yum! The problem was, we were full by then. Everyone ate anyway. Then, of course, we had a big cake (postre) for dessert. I thought I would pop from eating so much!
I got these pictures from the sister missionaries that live in our ward. They took pictures of our investigators. Actually, their investigators, but we have been visiting them and fellowshipping them.
This is Grizelda. She is the mother of a 16-year-old who got baptized the third week we were here. She is SO nice! She works as a server at the Spanish Embassy. The sisters are Sister Casebolt from Farmington, UT, and Sister Gardner from Taylorsville, UT. They are hard workers who have 3 people getting ready to be baptized.
This is Alicia Torres, who was less-active, but came to church once to try our ward out. Everyone is so friendly, she kept coming back.
Yolanda was playing the piano for two of the sisters singing around the piano. I don't know the name of the gal on the left, but Blanca is in the middle. She is outgoing, friendly , and loves music. She tells me all about what she is thinking and what's happening in her life. I catch about 30% of what she is saying, but that is enough to know how to respond. She is a good friend.
This is a better picture of Yolanda. She lives close to us, and she is the one who plays the piano for Sac. Mtg. and Relief Society every week. Her hands are arthritic, but she plays just fine. She is always complementary to me.
We had a special musical number. The sisters sang "Angels we Have Heard on High."
The bishop came a little later and he took a group picture. The man is the 2nd counselor in the Bishopric. He was putting his tie back on.
Thanksgiving in Uruguay
The church here is also very similar. The talks are about gospel subjects and the lessons are well prepared. I am always impressed with the members here. Our ward has about 60 people who attend every week, but the bishop has a goal of 90. Actually, we have that many active members, but their attendance isn´t consistent. It´s the same everywhere.
We have been having missionaries to dinner, and for Thanksgiving, we had the Hermanas from our ward to dinner at 8:15. After I invited them, I realized I had never made any of the food we eat at Thanksgiving here in Uruguay. We didn´t have a potato peeler, potato masher, wire whip, or a pie plate. Turkeys here are very small (9 lbs. or so) and the one I saw in the freezer case was $50 US! We decided that chicken was going to work just fine. But I hadn´t roasted a chicken either. They don´t have Stovetop stuffing mix, canned pumpkin or canned yams. SO, I started figuring out how to make Thanksgiving dinner here.
I checked at several supermarkets and sundry stores looking for the utensils and pans I would need. There are no stores like Walmart where you can get everything you need in one place, which isn´t all bad. I kind of like that, but it does make it more complicated when trying to find different things. I found everything I needed between three stores.
I checked the internet for the recipes I needed. At the supermarket, I found fresh potatoes, sweet potatoes, short skinny celery with lots of leaves, sage, flour, sugar, but not shortening or lard, brown sugar, cloves, ground ginger, or poultry seasoning. I didn´t want to try cooking one of the fresh pumpkins I saw there. It was half green and I wasn´t sure if it was orange inside or not, so I decided to make a carrot pie instead, like my mom does. Thank you, Mom, and also for teaching me how to make stuffing from scratch.
The night before (after work, and going shopping for the ingredients)I cooked and blended the carrots (there is a blender in our apartment), baked the sweet potatoes and cut them up, and toasted and diced the bread for the stuffing. On Thanksgiving Day, we went to work as usual. We could have taken the whole day, but we were short volunteers, and it would have left the office short-handed. I left work an hour early, and went to the local store and got a fresh chicken (5 lb. or more), whipping cream, pie plate, etc. I rode the bus home and started on dinner.
I put the chicken in the oven with the carrot pie (I used butter instead of shortening for the crust.) Next I put the potatoes on to boil, and started to sautee the celery, onions, and garlic in butter for the stuffing. I made the glaze for the sweet potatoes out of white sugar and butter, hoping it would carmelize. I poured it over the sweet potatoes and baked them in a hot oven (200 C.) after the chicken was done. The sauce caramelized in the oven and the yellow yams turned more orange. Yes!
The chicken turned out just like a small turkey. It was beautiful! The potatoes and gravy were delicious! Jerry said the stuffing was the best he´d ever had. The pie turned out and I served it with whipped cream that was whipped with a wire whisk in a coffee mug.
Jerry is holding the fork with his left hand while he carves with his right. The Hermanas are happy to celebrate their productive day with American food!
Hermana Casebolt and Hermana Gardner were so exited when they came. They had found 6 new investigators that day! They had looked up former contacts to give them one last chance. One the way to the last contact, they had talked to a woman sweeping the sidewalk in front of her store. The lady was very receptive about the Joseph Smith story, the Priesthood being restored, and everything! What a wonderful thing to eat dinner together and hear about the amazing work they were doing! We have been truly blessed!
As for me, I felt very blessed to be able to serve a dinner to guests where EVERYTHING I had made was an experiment. That was a little scary, but it worked out. I think someone was praying extra hard for the Hermanas to have a good Thanksgiving and I was an instrument in the Lord´s hands to make it happen. Your prayers in our behalf were felt because I truly felt guided. (Don´t laugh--it was hard.)
My Spanish is getting better. Today was a good day. I explained in fairly good Spanish (with conjugated verbs) to one of the darling young women volunteers, how to make a list of the people who have resumes here. I showed her how to cut and paste with the keyboard, and how to evaluate the resumes to see if any important information was missing. She understood me and was excited to do something that the whole office was working on. I prayed for the gift of tongues this morning, and was happy when I realized that the Lord was answering my prayer. He is truly there for us and for everyone who asks. I know we are being especially blessed because of our calling, however, the Lord will bless you in your righteous efforts also. No task is too small for the Lord. He is there for us.
Our work goes well, but as soon as we master one set of skills, it seems we have to begin learning another. We did complete the teaching of the 12 hour career workshop for the first time this week. We survived it, but we do need to improve, and I think that the, (mostly self-inflicted), pressure to improve at our jobs is one of the most difficult parts of the mission for us. It is also, perhaps, the most rewarding part of the mission.
We have had significant luck with encouraging inactive people and then having them show up at church. Whether the changes are permanent we can´t know, but it is surprising how important a little bit of attention can be. Often all we have offered is a phone call or a kind word.
The only unusual thing that happened this week, was that I had the chance, on Saturday evening, to run in a 10 kilometer race in Montevideo.
There were 7000 runners, cheering crowds, lovely weather, and a beautiful course.
It is almost impossible to describe just how many runners there were, but if you go to werunmontevideo.com they have some amazing pictures, which
This is my Bishop, (also my boss), and his son. I know it is a bad idea to beat your boss, but I beat them both, running it in 61 minutes, my best 10k ever.
After the race, Betty and I walked home on one of the prettiest spring nights of the year.
The two buildings with bright lights in back of us are, believe it or not, the towers of the World Trade Center of Montevideo
There was good food, (excellent hors dourves that I had never tasted before), music, (they had a DJ9, and dancing. When the bride and groom entered,they played the beginning of ¨From This Moment¨, but then immediately shifted into the Blue Danube Waltz, (see 2001, A Space Odyssey), and the bride and groom waltzed.
Then the parents waltzed with them, then everybody began to waltz. And...I mean....they could all really dance. Whether old, medium or young, They were good!! Later on, as they played faster music, it became apparent that almost everyone there was skilled in swing dancing. We were, and are, a bit baffled. Do they teach it in school here?
Anyway, we did some unimpressive dancing of our own, but spent more time holding the baby of a young couple who really enjoyed the chance to trip the light fantastic, almost as much as we enjoyed holding the baby. When we left, at 10:30, the party was still going strong.
The next day the other senior missionaries had invited us for a Tex-Mex dinner at the mission housing near the temple. We all really miss Mexican food here, and some of the ladies here had the Tex-Mex cooking skills, and figured out where to get the ingredients. Wow!! It was amazing! They say they will try for Chinese next time.
Today was stake conference, and it was being held across town in an area we weren´t too familiar with. We figured we would catch our regular bus to the city center, and then see if we could find one that was going our way. However, as we were standing in our regular place, wondering where the bus was, we noticed that they were blocking the road. It turns out there was a race scheduled, and we need to find another bus. As we began to walk up the road, a car stopped beside us. An older gentleman leaned out and asked, ¨Where are you going?¨ We told him we were headed to church, some distance away. He said, ¨Get in! I will take you!¨ We, of course, politely tried to turn him down, but he was insistent, and we got in the car. We weren´t even very clear in our minds about where the church was, but he took us across town, stopped twice to ask directions of passers by, and there we were. We thanked him and he drove away. It wasn´t until later that I figured out that he was one of the three Nephites.
It turned out to be a special stake conference for the 26 stakes of Uruguay and Paraguay, broadcast from Salt Lake, with Elder Ballard and Elder Packer, among others, speaking to us in excellent Spanish.
On the way home, (no Nephite waiting for us this time), we grabbed a bus that we hoped would lead downtown. Instead it took us.....right to the hospital where our friend Myrna, the stroke victim, was staying. We got off, looked at eachother, and decided we were supposed to be at the hospital. We had a good visit, and then found the proper bus and headed home. I guess you could say that we felt abundantly blessed all weekend.
The Christmas decorations went up in the stores this week, immediately after Halloween. It is going to be a lot of Christmas to deal with, since there is no Thanksgiving to break it up. Today, Nov 2, all of the banks are closed, as El Dia de los Muertos, (the Day of the Dead), is a national holiday. Sure enough, even though we are at work, it is kind of dead today.
This week we began teaching the 12 hour workshop by ourselves for the first time. Betty taught one of the sections, and did quite well. I am very proud of her.
I apologize in advance for the light-minded moment, but....the Giants have won the World series!!!!! This, of course, is a sign that the Millenium really is coming soon.
We went to the symphony last night at the oldest theatre in America, the Teatro Solis. It is a magnificent structure, and acoustically it is a marvel. The highlight of the night for me was Rimsy-Korsakov´s wonderful symphony ¨Sherezade¨, based on the 1001 Arabian nights. It is my newest favorite piece of music. Tchaikovsky, Rachmaninoff, and now Rimsy Korsakov make me believe that Russian composers are the best.
This is the interior of the theatre, looking toward the back.
These are just a couple more examples of our Uruguayan food. Notice the thick crust on the pizza. They don´t make it any other way, and although I enjoy it, I don´t eat it often, because it is just too hard to get it through the lapband. I had thought about loosening the band before I left, because I knew that the less processed Uruguayan food might be a problem for me. I left it alone, and it probably has been a blessing, because I already would have gained 50 lbs, and as it is, I am only up about ten.
Speaking of food, I need to tell you a funny story. We laughed so at our 3 year old granddaughter Libby when I told her that she was the only girl that I adore, and she said, "I not a door....anymore!¨ We now sympathize with her. In church this week, one of our friends had a son who was receiving the priesthood. Betty sat with the mother, at the beginning of the priesthood meeting, for the ordination, and the mother said, ¨Gracias por su apollo" (Thanks for your support). What Betty heard was "Gracias por su pollo¨, (Thanks for the chicken). She sat there for several minutes trying to remember giving the lady a chicken. Betty is not a door...anymore.
We would love to give you a list of Wilford Woodrufflike missionary experiences every week, but our work, while satisfying, doesn´t usually involve moving mountains, or leaping tall buildings at a single bound. We come to work every morning, try to be of help to the people, do some visiting, and then come home and sleep very well. We are given greater responsibilities week by week, and we are developing the new skills to accomplish them, and perhaps, at our age, that is the real miracle. The trick is not just doing what the Lord commands, but having faith that He will prepare the way, and He does.
All of the buildings in our part of town have doormen to provide 24 hour security. One of our games is to see if we can get out of the front door of the building before the doorman opens it for us. We don´t often win. Of course, upon the advice of every Uruguayan we know, we also lock the doors of our apartment at all times. It is quite a change from the Moreland days, when we had no idea where our house keys were, and would leave for weeks with the house unlocked.
The bus system here is so impressive. There are few places in this city of 2 million, in which you are not within a couple of blocks of a bus stop. Once you begin to learn the bus numbers, and where they go, you can easily make your way around the city. Each bus ride costs about 85 cents, although for $1.15 you can buy a two hour pass, which helps if you want to make a quick trip to the mall, or the grocery store and back. Mass transit in the states, (unless you are a dedicated bus taker like Heidi), usually means driving your car somewhere, parking it, and then catching your train or bus. Here a bus is always close by. A car might save you time, but the system makes it unnecessary. If the US ever has to get serious about energy conservation, Montevideo would be an excellent model for a mid-sized city to emulate.
We work in a very nice office with some fine people. Here with us, in these two pictures, are Daniel, soon to be a missionary, and Florencia, who is just 18. They are among several unpaid volunteers who help us 4-8 hours a week, as receptionists and aides in the office. Part of our work is to train and supervise the volunteers. As in any situation with volunteers, some of them are not always totally dependable, and sometimes don´t show up, in which case we need to handle everything that comes through the door on our own.
Betty has made herself an expert in the receptionist area. She handles telephone calls, and helps direct people to the resources they are looking for. Jerry spends more time helping people develop resumes and enroll themselves on the ldsjobs site. He also spends a great deal of time making telephone calls to find out whether people have found employment, or to remind them to come in and finish the work they have begun. He, of course, will be teaching the majority of the 12 hour workshops, although Betty is working on learning some sections that she might be able to teach, even though her Spanish is more limited. We are on the bus around 8, and don´t get home until after 6. We come home tired, but it is a good kind of tired. Neither of us have suffered from insomnia here. We sleep very well!
Betty chooses the pictures, and since she hates the idea of McDonalds being outside the US, I am surprised that it is here. Still, the McDonalds here are somewhat classier than at home. They all have a separate section called a McCafe, which serves fancy pastries. Still, on principle, we never go there. The food here is good, but very different, and we do find that we miss things that we could get in the states. I would love to go to a Chinese buffet, or to Jaliscos, but nothing like that really exists, other than a couple of fast-food imitations in the mall. The steak and seafood here is very good, but I haven´t been as as impressed by the pasta. They do candy and pastries, (things I try to avoid), quite well too. Turkey is not to be found. Actually, I guess that is technically not true, because mom saw a 12 lb turkey in the Disco, (supermarket), but the price was $50. So Thanksgiving would be an economic problem for us, if they celebrated it, but they don´t. For us, it is just another workday.
These two twin building are the World Trade Center. Yes, really! They are not as tall, but probably much safer. They are very attractive and are located right next to Montevideo Shopping.
Betty and I are working with new members and old investigators. If the investigators don´t seem to be quickly headed for baptism, the full-time missionaries have to drop them and look for someone else. We, however, are not in such a hurry, and we are friendshipping some of the investigators who still won´t commit to baptism, but who are still attending church. We are trying to limit ourselves, however, in how many people we visit during the week. Our days are already full, and when we overdo it at night, we start to burn out. I am of the opinion that senior missionaries would get a lot more done if they could make a special exemption during the mission, and let us drink coffee; but nobody listens to me.
Actually, I did meet with the President Da Silva today to renew my temple recommend, and I asked him, (I know. It doesn´t sound like something I would do. ) if we should check with him if we ever decided to leave town for the weekend to do some sightseeing. He said not to bother, and that he had confidence that we could take care of ourselves. Hmmm...
So...we are in a situation where there isn´t much to rebel against...which, for me, is quite a disappointment.
There is a fairly big group of senior missionaries who work at the temple and the mission offices, which are on the other side of town. We barely know them, however, and it is doubtful that we will ever know them very well. Our mission is very different. They live and work all week in a somewhat fortified block of buildings near the temple, which they seldom leave, (and I think that would drive me crazy). We work in an office, but we are out and about in the city every day, meeting interesting people and having new experiences. Betty and I both agree that we were placed in a situation that perfectly fits our personalities, and that plays to our strengths.
This is one of the many vegetable stands in the market we go to on Saturdays. We get our fresh food here. It is where the harp and maraca players were in the last blog.
Jerry was missing Ranch Dressing. Daniel Collato (our boss) took him to Ingles--a store that caters to Americans. He couldn´t find ranch dressing, but he found some Bleu Cheese dressing. This small bottle was $5.oo U.S. It´s precious!
We visited the Prado Expo this weekend, which was something of a mix between the state fair and a mini Epcot center. Several nations had exhibitions there, including the US, and many national and international businesses did also. The picture on the left shows some of the people who attended. Guess which one is me.
This, however, we did try. It is called a Paella; a stew of rice, seafood, and some UFO´s, (unidentified floating objects). It tasted good!!
Yes, folks, he is everywhere! This was part of the US embassy exhibit. All around the fair there were children carrying American flags, which we didn´t understand until we arrived at the exhibit and found that they were giving them away. Obama has promised the Uruguayans that they can be part of the America health care system......! Hey! I am just kidding! Gosh! All of you tea-party folks take everything so seriously!
Yup! Still American! Still proud! Still Ugly! For those of you who are wondering where our name tags are, we have been told not to wear them when we are just traveling around the city. Supposedly, it makes us more of a target for bad people, and I guess they figure the thieves would expect older people to have money. All that is fine, but in truth, I make up two of most Uruguayan men, and up to now, no one has even looked at us cross-eyed.
We have a little playground right outside our apartment, so if you would like to bring the grandkids......
We taught our first new member discussions in the evening this week, and we have more planned. We had a baptism in the ward on Sunday, and are looking at possibly 3-4 more soon. The high priests were really motivated, (Yeah, I know, oxymoron), on Sunday, and they concluded that all of the good things that are happening in the ward were coming to pass because they were regularly attending the temple as a group. I can´t find anything wrong in their thinking, and we think it is amazing and wonderful that they have such enthusiasm for the missionary work. We are, as a ward, going to the temple tonight for baptisms, followed by an endowment session. They are walking their talk.